During high-school, most guy got their first experience in love and breakups. Since you are mature enough sexually, at that point you are able to experience a relationship with all its ups and downs. There will be more relationships to come from now on but right now, you have your first contact with what women are all about.
Like any teenager, you are probably looking for every piece of information there is about the topic, just so you can find out for once, what it takes to know how to get a girl to like you. The desire is so powerful that it feels like you have no control over it. You want her right now!
At this point, it’s extremely hard to detach yourself from your desire, and quite frankly, you don’t really have to. It’s natural to feel the lust but it’s not natural to let rule you, so you only need to understand it better. There are dozens of studies showing that men get turned on the most around the age of 17-18. The “love” you feel for this girl is not “love” it’s mostly lust. Because you want her to fulfill your desire, your attachment to the outcome is extremely powerful, and that’s why you suffer so much when other girls are not interested in you. High-school is filled with beautiful girls and you crave most of them and it pisses you off that you can’t sleep with most of them, because you would if you could.
So, I can’t offer you generic advice about on the topic of ‘how to get a girl to like you’. What I want to give you in return is a clear picture of what’s going on with you and how this desire is affecting you. I think you agree with me about the fact that lust is taking control over your behavior when it comes to women. Even if you are not consciously aware of it, you are still trying to get into her pants, no matter how in love you are with her. That’s not a bad thing but if you have no control over it, it will control you and women will see it and they will reject you.
Even if the girl likes you, at point you will find yourself unable to move forward with the relationship and you will start searching answers to the other question: ‘how to make a girl fall in love with you?’. Everything makes a lot of sense, and despite the high-school atmosphere where everyone is trying to find their place, you still need that sense of authenticity to spark that attraction in women.
Take notice of the fact that women are incredibly sensitive to authenticity. That is why you see strange guys with weird behaviors attracting all the ladies, because they are not afraid to express themselves. You are authentic as well, but you need to get that out there, because that’s the only way a woman could fall in love with you.